Five Go To Sea
If someone had asked me a few years back what the likelihood was of ever finding me on a cruise ship, I would have said you had a better chance of winning the lottery – the real one, not the kind I described in the last section. But in the spring of 2014 that’s exactly where I was. Kay Laurence had decided to celebrate her sixtieth birthday in style. She was going on a Caribbean cruise, but not just any cruise. She invited Ken Rameriz, Dr. Jesús Rosales Ruiz, and myself to join her on a Five Go To Sea conference/cruise/adventure. I’m really not sure what to call it, so I’ll just settle for amazing! That describes it the best.
I’m sure you’ve done the math. Kay, Ken, Jesús and myself make four not five. Number five were all the other conference attendees.
Before I plunge into describing the conference and all that we learned, let me set the stage by describing the ship we were on. Prior to going on the cruise, I didn’t know what to expect. I knew cruise ships were enormous, but this ship dwarfed anything I had imagined. I looked up it’s dimensions. It was 127 feet wide and 1047 feet long. Some people think in terms of football fields. I translate dimensions into riding arenas. The ship was twice the width of my indoor arena and more than eight times as long!
Now take those dimensions and stack up 14 floors of guest accommodations, restaurants, theaters, pools, meeting rooms, dance floors, lounges, spas and all the other amenities a cruise ship has to offer, and you’ll begin to get a sense of the size of the ship. And however big it was from the ground floor up, there was that much again below to accommodate the crew, kitchens, engines, fuel, water, food storage and everything else that it takes to provide for well over 4,000 people. My barn looks like a big building sitting by itself on the side of a hill, but it would be easily swallowed up inside the belly of this ship.
Most of the 4,000 people who were vacationing on the ship were there for the spas, the theaters and all the other guest amenities. And then there was this rather odd group of clicker trainers who completely baffled the staff. We weren’t sleeping in after a night of partying. Instead we were getting up at the crack of dawn to meet up for a morning t’ai chi and body awareness session. Instead of lounging for hours at a time by the pool or gambling in the ship’s casino, we spent the days at sea in the conference room. That was our idea of fun!
“Riding” the Ocean
I know heading into the cruise many of the conference attendees were concerned about being seasick. I can now tell you that yes, you do feel the pitch and roll of the ocean. Was anyone sea sick? On the first day some people were definitely feeling a bit queasy. Experienced travelers like Ken Ramirez had taken precautions and were wearing motion sickness patches.
What did I experience? I can now say that I loved being out on the open ocean. Was the rolling of the ship fun? Absolutely! I loved it! It felt like riding! I might have a different tale to tell if we’d been crossing the north Atlantic in a winter gale, but I loved the rolling of the ship. When you ride, you let the motion of the horse take you. It’s not about blocking the energy or keeping yourself rigid. You let your joints follow the forward and up of the horse’s back. The ship was like that.
There’s an exercise I teach called the “four points on the bottom of your feet”. It’s a Feldenkrais exercise. You begin by noticing how you move, how you shift your balance as you roll around the four points on the bottom of your feet (inside toe, outside toe, outside heel, inside heel). How do you shift your balance forward and back, side to side? How do you send and receive these shifts in balance?
In the “Four Points” exercise you are asking yourself: Where does the movement begin? Where does it stop? What blocks it? What could I release, what could I find that would let me flow more easily around the four points on the bottom of my feet?
The roll of the ship let me explore those questions. I loved the feel. The ship would pitch to the side, and I would roll with it, catching my balance at the top of the swell and rolling down with it. I kept thinking how boring it was going to be to be back on land that didn’t roll and sway under my feet. I loved “riding” the ship.
I suspect the people who were feeling a little “green around the gills” were wishing I would stop grinning like a Cheshire cat each time the ship pitched up over a wave. There’s nothing so annoying as someone who is having a good time when you’re feeling miserable – especially when what is making you feel sick is the very thing they are laughing about.
I do think it is a great example of how we create our own reality. I went into the cruise expecting to have a great adventure. I could have stiffened against the pitch of the ship and made myself miserably sick. Instead I flowed with it and had a grand time “riding”.
I love exploring balance. On that first day at sea I had a hard time staying balanced. I could roll around the four points just fine, but I couldn’t stand with my feet together. I had to keep stepping out wider to catch my balance. There was also no walking a straight line down the endlessly long corridors of the ship. I swayed from wall to wall looking like I’d just downed a bottle of Caribbean rum. But a couple of days later, not only could I stand feet together, so could everyone else. I led the group through the beginning steps of learning to stand balanced over your feet. On day one this would have been a challenge for all of us. But on day three of the conference everyone had gained sea legs.
We do create our own reality. Kay Laurence discovered she likes cruises, so she created a conference cruise to celebrate her 60th birthday. She designed a conference like no other. We had overall themes for each day, but we weren’t tied to particular presentations.
Normally at conferences the organizers want to know what you’re going to talk about months ahead of the event. I understand their perspective. They need to advertise the event, but eight months out I don’t know what is going to be inspiring me.
I much preferred Kay’s approach. Creativity comes from combining familiar elements in new ways. All four of us had heard each other speak before. We were familiar with the material that was going to be presented, but in the format of this conference we had so much more time for conversation and discussion. We could expand on ideas presented and adjust our choice of presentations to follow up on topics that were of interest. That meant the impact of the presentations went beyond that of most conferences.
What emerged from those talks was a true Caribbean treasure trove. If you asked each of the participants who went on the Five Go To Sea cruise what the highlight of the trip was, I’m sure you would get dozens of different answers. For some it might be an adventure they had on one of the excursion days. For others it might be a dinner time conversation with one of the speakers. For me I would say the cornerstone of the event was Dr. Jesús Rosales Ruiz’s talk on resurgence. In the previous unit I talked about Kay Laurence’s microshaping. This is very much linked to the concepts Jesús introduced us to in his talk.
Kay wants a 98% or higher success rate. To get to that you need to thin slice your criteria. If you’re sloppy, if you’re waiting for your animal to offer behavior, you will end up with a hodgepodge of clicks. You’ll miss clickable behaviors. You’ll click for a head turn this time and a foot lift the next. Kay calls this dirty shaping.
For both Kay and myself clean, elegant shaping evolves out of microshaping.
Micro. That’s always been the direction I’ve looked. Remember Dr. Susan Friedman’s phrase – level of analysis. (https://theclickercenterblog.com/2016/09/16/) She talks about that in reference to the focus someone has. If you are looking through a Caribbean pirate’s spy glass, are you focused on the distant horizon or the bird that’s skimming across the water just a few feet out from your ship? When you consider why a certain behavior is occurring, are you trying to figure out what part of the brain is activating and what individual neurons are firing? Or are you looking at observable events that surround the behavior which might be effecting the frequency of it’s occurrence?
Levels of focus very much relate to training. You can go macro and be outcome driven and send your horse directly over fences. If you and your horse are bold and athletic enough, you’ll be successful.
Alternatively, you can go micro and look at the reaction patterns that will allow you to jump those fences successfully. (I discussed reaction patterns in the previous post.)
Going macro prematurely can lead to crashes. Going micro will produce the macro outcomes without seeming to work on them directly.
Most of us have been told that we need to walk, trot, and canter our horses in both directions every day for training to advance. But if your horse is out of balance in the faster gaits, practicing them just makes the balance problems more entrenched.
There’s a lovely expression that sits at the core of my training:
“The walk is the mother of all gaits.”
What this means is you can focus on the underlying reaction patterns that lead to great balance in all three gaits without needing to go out of the walk. When you do ask for the trot or canter after a hiatus from these gaits, it will feel as though you have a completely different horse under you.
Going micro gives us something else. It allows us to transform the make-it-happen force and violence of traditional horse training into clicker-compatible good technique. It is this transformation that makes true play between horses and humans possible.
To get there we need to look at extinction and the role it plays in shaping. To help us we’re going to return to the Five Go To Sea cruise and sit in on the lecture Dr. Jesús Rosales-Ruis gave on Extinction and Resurgence.
So get out your notebook, pull up a chair and join us on the cruise. You’re about to be treated to a gem of a lecture.
Coming Next: Resurgence and Regression
P.S.: We so enjoyed the conference cruises that Kay came up with yet another innovation: a land cruise. We had our first Training Thoughtfully Land Cruise in the UK in January 2016. In 2017 we will be holding our second. This one will be October, 20-22, 2017 in Milwaukee WI.
If you are thinking Milwaukee seems an unlikely place for a land cruise, one of the reasons for picking the locations is Kay and I want to use these conferences to provide a stage for local talent. People often feel that there is no one close to them they can go to for help. These conferences will help connect people to their local training resources. At this conference two of my Click That Teaches coaches, Jen Digate and Natalie Zielinski, will be presenting, along with several dog trainers Kay knows. All of them are local to the Milwaukee area.
Anticipation is a wonderful thing. If you are reading this in November 2016, there is currently an early bird special available for the conference registration. Visit trainingthoughtfullymilwaukee.com for full details.
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