Everyone Should Have A Hobby

Everyone should have a hobby. If you are thinking mine has something to do with horses, you would be partially right. I do spend most of my time working with horses, writing about horses, talking about horses, thinking about horses, living with horses. But I do have a hobby that only partially revolves around horses. I write children’s book.

C.S. Lewis wrote: “When I was young, I read children’s books in secret. When I was an adult, I read them openly and with pleasure.”

C.S. Lewis is of course the author of the Narnia books, so I am in good company. If you are not familiar with his children’s books, you have a treat in store for you.

When I was three years old, my parents read “The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe” to me for the first time. JRR Tolkein’s “The Hobbit” was read to me when I was four.

My much read, much loved copy

These books had a powerful influence on my life. Just the fact that I remember listening to these stories when I was so very young shows you the impact that they had.

When I talk about horse training, I say that all training methods are made up of three layers. There is the underlying belief system, the guiding principles and the methods we chose. When I describe the core ethical belief system that guides my training, I say to people: “I read ‘Black Beauty‘ when I was little, and I cried when Ginger died.” When it comes to horses, I am unashamedly sentimental.

I would have been six or seven when I encountered ‘Black Beauty’ for the first time. So before there was Ginger, there was Narnia.

Nowadays everyone knows about Middle Earth, but when I encountered C.S. Lewis and JRR Tolkien, that was years before they were widely known in the US. Every fall my parents would get the children’s catalog from Blackwells Bookstore in Oxford England.

In October we would spend days pouring over the catalog and choose the books we wanted for Christmas. In December a carton would arrive from Blackwells containing the books we had selected.

Ordering from Blackwells meant we had many books years before they were widely known in the US. It’s hard to imagine it now, but growing up, I was the only person in my class who knew about hobbits.

My favorite books were filled with magic. I wanted books that would take me to Narnia and Middle Earth. Of course, I loved the Paddington books and was charmed by Winnie the Pooh. There was also ‘Green Smoke‘, and ‘The Children of Green Knowe‘, to name just a few of my favorites.

There were never enough of these books to satisfy so I starting writing my own. I write the kind of stories I would have enjoyed reading as a child. The magic is real, the animals have voices, and fauns and dragons do exist.

Why am I writing about this? You know me as a horse trainer, and the author of the clicker training books. That’s been my focus for thirty plus years. I want horse-friendly, kind, caring, compassionate training to become the norm in the horse world.

The path that put me on an interception course with clicker training began when I was three years old and I found my way to Narnia for the first time. The children’s books that I most loved have very much shaped the person I am today. They taught me important values. I read ‘Black Beauty‘ when I was little and I cried when Ginger died.

The path that children books put me on led to the writing of “Clicker Training for your Horse” and my other books on clicker training.

These training books have had a major impact in the horse world. They provide an alternative to the force-based, “show them you’re the boss” training that is so prevalent throughout the horse world. People all around the planet are now using clicker training. They are recognizing that you don’t have to “hit harder” to get horses to listen to you. In fact, when you stop hitting them, they listen to you so much more.

I’ve been listening to my horses, and they are telling me it is time to share the children’s books I have written. They are filled with love and loyalty. Those are important lessons to learn to carry forward into a life filled with horses.

I hope you are curious and you want to know more. I am going to make you wait until tomorrow to unwrap my new book!

Coming tomorrow: More Details!

5 thoughts on “Everyone Should Have A Hobby

  1. Like you, my parents introduced me to the same books when I was very young growing up in California in the 1950s (my mother a librarian and my father a history teacher). And like most children I was besotted with the independent, talking animals of Narnia. I have actually stayed at Green Knowe while Lucy Boston was still alive; a good friend of mine was an old friend of Lucy Boston and was living there for a time, she invited me to stay and Lucy kindly gave me a tour of the house and garden, with so many stories. Of course it was completely magical. I’m sure these books sowed the seeds a long time ago of searching for the way to really communicate with animals, which turns out to be clicker training!

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  2. Oh Alex, what a super super thing to be able to do. Communicate not just to adults and acadeamics, but bring this to the mind and experience of children too. Inspire them as Black Beauty did for so so many of us in our childhoods and shaped the horse people / people we are today. So many many concepts are learnt in childhood and shape our outlook, or morals, our ethics as we grow and try them out, make sense of them, bring them into our reality and live by them too. Then the impact that this then has on others around us. I am very very aware of the delight I have had for so so many years to share my own horse passion with my daughter and seeing the difference that not just training horses with clicker, but the whole ethos has had on her life and the way she now deals and influences childrens minds / lives in which she is involved.
    Children are our future and within them lies the power to make the complete difference our whole planet needs and requires. So thank you for utilising your amazing gifts to this whole end.
    I look super forward to reading the story myself, buying it for children within my life and influence too.
    Regards as always
    Shirley UK

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